Uncertain • Insufficient • Weak
Aggressive • Subjective • Vulnerable
Flippant • Distinctive • Local
The Insecure Position is characterized by a self-negative disposition towards the aspect held within. It comes off as uncertain, insufficient, and holding unassured/weaker beliefs.
The Insecure Position also has an others-negative disposition towards the aspect held within. It comes off as aggressive, subjective, and vulnerable.
When we combine the self-negative, and others-negative dispositions this position holds, we see than an orientation towards desiring to process comes into play. This process focus is what gives the third position a wordy, conditional, and universal feel to it. The Insecure Position wants to engage in the journeys they desire while processing the information surrounding it. They tend to be unsure, hesitant, and apprehensive towards the aspect, and feel intense vulnerability that they must protect. The problem with the third position is that they overestimate what can hurt them, so this creates a bit of a vigilant aura in which they can double down on, or completely ignore if it causes too much anxiety. The Insecure Position often needs help, and desires to be walked through the process with care and respect, or else they can react badly.
Click on the pictures below to view how each aspect looks in the Insecure Position – these are known as the Attitudes.